'I' must love 'me' 🥰

You must first get along with yourself before you get along with others! Our near ones do make us happy but then there you go emotionally dependent and crawling on the waves of constant expectations. Many of the butterflies of expectations end up landing on the grounds of heartbreaks leading to unhappiness. So actually to share with u, the sooner we realise the better, that the battle or the discomfort is not with another human, neither with the enemies or the ill behaviour/attitude around us (which is always there), rather, the fact is that our argument is with our own thoughts. For that, I shud voluntarily blend in beautifully with the one who is inside me, life will be beautiful if, 'I' and 'me', we are one. we shud strongly try to be amongst the 10% who are genuine dear by heart n no black tinge over it. Its our thoughts towards which we must have a neutralising attitude, for eg. if sum hyper or negative thought pop out in 'me' then after a genuine effort 'I' must give it a positive spray of the complementary thought so as to neutralise it (which will come on repetitive practice), and that is the oneness of 'me' and 'I'. If we have love, positivity towards ourself, life becomes very less complex, unwanted people automatically become insignificant, and our love magnifies for our dear ones. We become emotionally independent and happy because of and for ourself, hence for our near ones. So first  'I' must love 'me' for 'me' to love 'u' P.S.: knit only that is positive, bcoz the basic nature of human is to stay happy.